Starting 2026 With Intention: Growth, Identity, and the “Figuring It Out” Season
- Vitor de Souza

- Jan 5
- 3 min read

A new year has a way of inviting reflection.
As 2026 begins, many of us are thinking about where we’ve been, where we are now, and where we hope to go next. We think about resolutions, goals, relationships, careers, and the version of ourselves we’re trying to grow into. For young adults and emerging professionals especially, this time of year can feel both exciting and overwhelming.
It’s the season of figuring it out.
And that season looks different for everyone.
New Year’s Resolutions Aren’t About Perfection
I’ve always been someone who values New Year’s resolutions. Not because I believe every goal will be accomplished exactly as planned — but because the act of reflecting matters.
At the start of each year, I take time to look back:
What did I learn?
What stretched me?
What am I proud of?
What do I want more of this coming year?
I also think about the people in my life — family, friends, mentors — including those I may not see often but still hold close. I reach out. I reconnect. I remind them they matter.
But like many people, I’ve also set goals I didn’t fully accomplish. Not always because I didn’t try — sometimes because life happened. Sometimes because the goal changed. Sometimes because it felt harder than I expected.
And that doesn’t make the reflection meaningless.
Every new year is still an opportunity to reset, to realign, and to recommit — not to perfection, but to growth.
How Exploration and Identity Shaped My Path
My own journey into mental health began with curiosity about people — and about myself.
When my parents divorced, it sparked questions I didn’t yet have language for. Why do people respond the way they do? Why do emotions show up so differently for everyone? How do life experiences shape who we become?
Those questions stayed with me.
Over time, exploration turned into intention. And intention turned into commitment.
Year after year, I chose to keep moving toward becoming a therapist — through college, graduate school, exams, training, and countless moments of doubt and perseverance. Each year built on the last. Each season of reflection helped shape the next step.
Looking back, every new year felt like a checkpoint:
What worked?
What didn’t?
What did I need to adjust?
What did I want to keep pursuing?
That process of reflection and forward planning has been one of the most grounding parts of my life.
The “Figuring It Out” Season Is Real
If you’re a young adult or emerging professional, you might be feeling some version of this right now:
Trying to figure out your career path
Questioning whether you’re on the “right” track
Navigating relationships, family expectations, finances, and mental health
Wanting clarity, but feeling stuck in uncertainty
This season can feel heavy — especially when it seems like everyone else has it figured out.
But the truth is: exploration is not a failure phase. It’s a necessary one.
And sometimes exploration happens internally. Other times, it’s best done with someone outside of your immediate circle — someone unbiased, supportive, and trained to help you make sense of it all.
How Therapy Can Support Your New Year
Working with a therapist doesn’t mean you’re lost or broken.
It can mean:
You want space to reflect and plan
You want help clarifying your goals
You want support processing stress, pressure, or uncertainty
You want to explore identity, purpose, or direction
You want somewhere to unwind and be honest
Early in my own journey, working with a therapist and completing a career assessment helped confirm that my path aligned with my personality, strengths, and values. That clarity mattered — and so did having a place to process everything that came with it.
Whether you’re actively exploring your future or simply need support managing the present, therapy can be a powerful tool as you step into a new year.
A New Year, A Fresh Start — Again and Again
2026 doesn’t have to be about drastic change or rigid resolutions.
It can be about:
Small, intentional steps
Honest reflection
Reconnecting with yourself
Allowing space for growth and uncertainty
Every year is a new beginning — even if it builds on unfinished goals from before.
And if this year feels like another chapter in your “figuring it out” season, you don’t have to navigate it alone.
Looking for Support This Year?
If you’re a young adult or emerging professional in Florida looking for a space to reflect, process, and grow, therapy can help you start this year with intention and clarity.
👉 To learn more about therapy services for Florida residents, visit our Therapy Services page: https://www.pro-counselors.com/therapy-services-summary
Here’s to a year of reflection, growth, and becoming more of who you already are!
_ed.png)



Comments